In this quick video (under three minutes) interview, Professor Russell James, Professor of Charitable Financial Planning at Texas Tech University, shares his “4-S” Method for talking to donors about bequest giving. It goes like this:
- Story 1: What’s new at the organization
- Story 2: Another story, hopefully something you know this donor has an interest in.
- Story 3: This one about a fellow donor who has decided to include the organization in her will; tell why she did it and why she finds it so rewarding. And then … ask the donor if she’d be interested in a charitable bequest.
- Shut up: (Or take a sip of your drink.) Just don’t talk before the donor has a chance to think! Staying silent is not easy, especially at this important part of the conversation.
Following this method can make the most nervous or shy fundraiser into a bequest superstar, because it connects with donors on a meaningful level and gives them the chance to seriously consider this major decision you’re hoping she’ll make.
You don’t always get a “yes,” but you can count on having a good conversation! Try it!
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